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I simply chose to jump back into life and live again, my trigger was and my 3 year old son… Although I thought it would take something huge, to bring about change, it in fact came about with cookie crumbs and love. I opened my eyes only to see you far off in the distance. Should I just let it go or tell him that I want to give this another try?

Since we broke 4 weeks ago, we regularly see at beginning because we kept some feeling. In November after I wrote him a long note about my feelings and what I went thru when we split we talked in person. They can occur daily, or you can have overarching ones that just seem to color everything you do.

LETOYA

You certainly must make him miss you if you ever want to get him to try to win you back, but it takes more than that to get him back and keep him for good. In order to get the result you want, you have to do the entire formula not just parts. As a dating and relationship coach, I help a lot of women get their ex back and constantly read all the psychological and scientific studies backing up what works to get your ex back. The only things I recommend are the proven, effective strategies that not only get your ex back but let you keep him for good. That is why I am so intrigued by all the scientific literature related to reconciliation with an ex. You must regret the day that you left me does drug withdrawal have to do with a breakup. Mentally, breakups are actually very similar to how it feels when you quit a drug, and go through withdrawal. Drugs stimulate the pleasure center of the brain, increasing the amount of dopamine and making you feel a general sense of euphoria. When you quit the drug, you feel a profound low. You might feel lethargic, like you have no energy and no real spring in your step. You might see pictures of your ex boyfriend or be driving, hear a song on the radio and end up crying in a ball of tears… a general sense of sadness might make your entire body hurt when you even think of the breakup. Anything that reminds you of him will bring up this overwhelming sadness and possibly even regret. All of these reactions can actually be explained by science, by this opposite reaction to the euphoria you experienced while in the relationship. Love is actually like an addiction. First, I want to talk about something that a lot of women worry about after a breakup. It means your ex is also almost certainly thinking about you. It gives you insight into the same process he is going through. Now, we do not know exactly what he is thinking. He could be thinking good or bad things. Another thing you need to know… missing your ex or thinking about your ex does not magically stop just because someone enters a relationship. Have you done this with an overwhelming sense of panic mixed with an unexplainable curiosity. Do you only end up more upset and frustrated in the end. Even in my own life… I admit, I have done this. I recall how I acted after a bad breakup with a girl I really loved. I would check her social media, trying to figure out how she was doing. I wanted to know what was going on with her. In fact, this study shows that 90% of people wind up secretly spying on their ex through social media. And if your ex has you on his mind often… you can use this to get an advantage, correct. This is what is going to put you in the position of power when it comes to making your ex miss you. So wait… does this make it super simple to make your ex miss you. There are many things you need to do in order to accomplish this. But here is the main point I am trying to get across. At the moment, your ex has you on his mind way too often. Making your ex boyfriend miss you should be super easy, right. Before we get to that and I explain the formula for making him miss you I have to give you a key understanding so that you maximize your shot of success. The Most Important Thing That Makes or Breaks Whether Your Ex Misses You What determines whether or not your ex-boyfriend misses you. The nature of the time you spent with him is going to play a huge role in whether or not he wants to get back together with you. If the nature of the time you spent with him during your relationship was miserable and unhappy, the chances of him wanting to get back together with you are lower. This is another huge factor when trying to assess whether he will want to get back together. If you broke up with him your shot of getting him back is higher than if he broke up with you. If he had you and you ended the relationship, he will be left wanting more. In particular, if you broke up with him and it was something he 100% did not want to happen… you are going to definitely have an advantage in this situation. He is going to feel like he was powerless over losing you and will want to get back together with you. If something we like is taken away from us, we want it back. Kind of like if you are on diet: you feel deprived of something you love and enjoy. So if you broke up with him and he did not want you to… this is an advantage. That is, unless … he was unfaithful, betrayed you and this caused you to break up with him. But even still, this plan can work. So pay attention to the formula, which I will reveal right now. If you are constantly texting him, telling him how much you miss him and how much you love him… this will backfire. There is absolutely nothing worse than persistently trying to talk to your ex right after a breakup. The negative feelings and emotions at the end of a relationship overwhelm everything else, forcing the couple to break up. Without this phase, nothing will work. You must give him room to miss you. If you are not making yourself actively available to him, he will start to want what he cannot have. People want what is out of their reach. This is key when it comes to making your ex miss you and ultimately getting him back. I understand how hard it can be to control yourself when you are in an emotional state and you miss him a lot and just want to reach out. It is absolutely essential to stop contacting him and never, ever plead with him to get back together. Now, I want to make this very clear: I am not saying you must be a certain weight or go out of your way to be a certain way to fit some societal idea of what is right. I am simply being honest about how men are going to be the most attracted to you when you are in the best shape for you. I am talking about doing the best with your unique body shape that you can. Again, healthy not emaciated or unhealthy. Try to invest time in what you eat and add some light working out to your routine. You will feel and look your best. Invest in Some New Makeup You might as well do this in order to feel better about yourself. Go and buy a new lipstick, eyeliner or something that makes you feel sexy and attractive. If you take extra care in applying your makeup, you will go out and feel better. Both looking and feeling your best. Take Care of Yourself In general, make yourself a priority. Take care of your health, your general well-being and make sure you take the time to do this as well. Have Fun Are there female friends you have lost touch with. Go out, meet new people and be yourself. Let go of any sadness you have and distract yourself with true fun. Learn how to laugh again, to have a good time and be in the company of others who you can truly be yourself with. Putting your best foot forward includes social media. Remember we discussed how most people do stalk their ex on social media. You can use this silent stalking as an excellent way to make him yearn for you. Put up some amazingly flattering pictures looking happy and delighted with life. There are two parts to the social media part. Step 1 Men are visual creatures. Remember how looking your best is part of this phase. Well, it spills over to this part. Do not have a profile picture of your dog or a picture of the beach. Simply post an attractive picture to make him realize what he is missing. Step 2 Post a picture of you having a good time. Instead of him getting the comfort of knowing you are depressed without you must regret the day that you left me in your life, show him you are still out and enjoying life without him needing to be in it. As I have mentioned many times in many articles, men are attracted to happy women. Not only that, he will want you more because he is going to be slightly upset at how un-upset you are. He is going to want you to miss him, which will in turn make him start to miss you. Remember how having fun is part of this phase. Phase 3: Other Men Create Envy This is an extremely risky one that I do not think is always a good idea. If you were with an extremely possessive, emotional man who would be disgusted at seeing you with another man… do not do this. This can either work very well or completely backfire and make him never want to get back together with you. So proceed with caution and if you do decide to do this, only do it in small doses do not go overboard because I guarantee you it will backfire. I am not saying to go crazy and intentionally try to make him jealous by flirting with everyone and plastering it on social media. What I am saying is do some things here and there that hint that you are being pursued by other men. Whether it is on Facebook or Instagram, posting a status update that shows you hanging out with another man… what is most important here is that you realize you do have options. Maybe do some casual flirting with men you meet. This will help you see that you do not have to be so hung up on your ex only. Now, you might meet other men and realize you only want your ex you must regret the day that you left me but you also might meet other men and realize there is a whole world out there full of new people to meet. This will help your vibe when you interact with your ex in the future. He will feel that you are a woman who has choice. In fact, you do not even have to flaunt meeting new men at all. The best option is to simply do things you want you must regret the day that you left me have fun, which will give you the confidence of having you must regret the day that you left me choice. When he feels this vibe, he will not want to lose you to another man and instinctually want to have you back. Phase 4: Let Him Miss You And Come Back To You This is the simplest phase of all, but one of the hardest to do correctly. That way, you must regret the day that you left me remembers how good you were together without those memories being tainted by the end of the relationship. When all that comes together, it can be tempting to reach out and contact him. So phase 4 is simple: sit tight, keep working on yourself, keep pursuing other options in your dating life, and let him miss you and come back to you. Now, I want to leave you with something to think about… How to Tell If He Misses You Does he randomly text you out of the blue to ask you how you are doing. Does he send you messages on social media and talk about nothing. Does he call you when he is drunk. Does he tell you he is thinking about you. Does he seem to show up at places you are at. Does he still talk to anyone you are close to. If you have any questions or concerns, please write me a comment below and I would love to answer it. And please do let me know your success stories because there is nothing I love more than hearing success stories. I hope that now you know how to make your ex miss you after your breakup. It has been about a month and a half since we broke up. At first we were talking constantly. Then I tried to not answer him so often or atleast wait a while to answer. We have a cat together that stays with him and he wants me to see our cat. But sometimes it seems like he wants me to come over to see him too. We stopped talking for about a week and when he was drunk he called me and asked me for a ride. When I dropped him off he asked for a hug. When I hugged him he told me he missed me and wanted me to come inside and see our cat. Which I regretted as soon as it happened. We talked a little bit after that but I was so sad. So for myself I stopped talking to him. He messaged me a couple days later just to talk. We had a really good conversation. He called me again when he was drunk about 5 days ago. He wanted me to come over and cuddle with him and just hang out. I was really hesitant but agreed. When I went over there we just talked and laughed. We talked the next day basically all day. Then he had to work so we stopped. I messaved him the next day telling him to drive safe if he had to work cause it snowed. I felt like it was weird that he told me he was going out. I just told him have a good night and drive safe. I am trying to not talk to him and just leave him be. But I want to be with you must regret the day that you left me and I miss him a lot. Question my ex and I been on for 8 months. He is a narsassist and manipulating. He broke up with me 2 days ago. I receive a text at 2:28am saying I miss you with a sad face then at 10:am he sends another text saying wrong person. We were in a long-distance relationship for you must regret the day that you left me 4 months. Everything went well and we managed to see each other a couple of time despite the distance. My question is what should I do. I feel like it was a mistake that we break upand maybe I should have stay in contact with him. Our relationship ended because he started cheating and i admit i am the cause of that. What do i do now after all the wrong things i have done to push him away. I also want to know how i should go about the no contacting phase. Do i totally block him out of the blue after we have been talking. If u are suffering from depression or any kind of problem you can contact him on. Hello, so my ex and I broke up on weird terms. How can I simply compete with that and how could I get him to see things my way. I was with my boyfriend for one year. He broke up with me and we said we would see each other in a month to talk things out. After one week I contacted him, he was nice, we just chatted for a day. After one week I contacted him again and I ask for us to meet, he agreed, we saw each other and I wrote him a letter saying sorry and saying all the things I was going to change. The next day he came to my place and said he wanted to try again, so we did for a week. In that week he was distant, uninterested and mad all the time. I want to get back back together with him. Hello,I broke up with my boyfriend year ago ,we were together for 5 years. I broke up with him …he was not calling he has done it once or twice n once on WhatsApp. Any chance hell come back again. But i sent him only one statement after seeing his marriage photo on Facebook n he replied. Since then I decided not to talk to him again the no contact rule what else should I do. My ex broke up with me because of the exams I will have in next June called panellhnies and it determines what university will I study. Nevermind, he broke up with me because he could not see me as much as he wanted to during that time. Now he is commenting on one of my friends Instagram posts and asks her if they can go to the gym together etc. How can I make him want me back. I am very shocked and unable of dealing with the break up. All I am thinking about now is having him back. My boyfriend and I dated 4 months and he officially broke up with me yesterday. And he told me not to text him. He told me to give him some space and that we are never getting back together. The reason we fought was because he mostly makes plan with his friends and he no longer makes plan with me. We texted short texts everynight and we do see each other either at my place or his place once every two or three weeks. I told him that I want to date like other couples like going on dates and stuffs. Because when we first started dating, he took me to many dates and then during the summer, he started working and he got busy. My ex always have problem with relationship. Like he is not really into it and before me, he said he would never date. But I feel like he started to change after he started working which was the begining of the summer. I asked him and he said he still liked me and he just got busier. He no longer being affectionate towards me. And my ex is like really emotionless. He said having emotion or feeling attached to things or people are hard. Is there a chance we would get back together. When we reconnected it was instantly perfect. Our relationship was very happy and we were very much in love all throughout our time together. We are scared of being too vulnerable and we are both kind of stubborn. Please give me advice, I need it. My ex broke up with me 3 months ago and he recently texted me saying that he you must regret the day that you left me us to have a future where we are not mad at each other anymore and wants us to be civil. As an overview, I was in relationship for 2 years and I broke up few weeks ago. The reason of the break up was because of our jealousy. Neither of us was cheating, but apparently he was sick of always getting into argument when it comes to our jealousy. This sounds quite silly, since we actually survived bigger quarrel but this got us broken up. I really need an advise of what to do. After 4 years my boyfriend broke up with me via text. We were friends before dating and he is my best friend. I asked if we could talk and he agreed. He texted he loved me and said we would find a time to talk the following week. This happened approximately 2 months ago and I am on 19 days of no contact which is killing me. I miss my best friend above anything else. I have never been in a state of despair as I am over this. I was in a relationship for fours with my boyfriend,on the 3rd year things staterd to get ugly for us. Then when i was out i met a nice and we kept going out together,having so much fun. So now he found out that i was cheating n i did confess because i ddnt wanna live with the guilt everyday,he was so furious with me. He invited me over which we were separated for 3 months. When i came over he was fine and we enjoyed each other,until today morning when i saw on whatsapp he posted this girl which he is involved with her. My ex and I broke up 4 days ago, we were together for 9 months. In The first month of our relationship I went on a cruise and my friend asked if we were still dating. She saw him making out with his ex gf at her party. I talked to the girl and she told me they even had sex and she had his necklace and earring and he even changed her name in his phone to a guys name. I read very inappropriate messages between the two. So 8 months go by and the majority of our relationship we spent time watching tv, playing video games, going to a few parties, but not really going out and doing actual couple things. But the worst part is his friends are a major problem, was a problem in our relationship, they … mainly one friend encourages him to go out and get drunk. If he were to say no he would get manipulated and they would beg him to come out. The last thing I said to him was I hope he takes this time to work on himself and not being in a relationship. For his sake I hope this is true. It seems like he goes from relationships to relationships. Please suggest me someting : My ex boyfriend called my present boyfriend and spoke shit about me and my boyfriend was still fine after you must regret the day that you left me to it but I called him up snd told him about how my ex treated me. I told him things like my you must regret the day that you left me bf had kidnapped me, he came to my house and locked me up when my parents were out, my ex used to take the call history details of my number and call my friends and that is how he got your number. He got so mad and he is angry and hurt, he asked me why dint you lodge a complaint against him after he did all these things, why dint you change your number though u knew he had access to your number, why did you let it go, why did you manage staying with him though you got to know he is a psychopath. When my ex told him that I spoke to him and told him that my boyfriend is carrier oriented, he is of so and so caste, his shift timings, etc… I told these things to my ex because I wanted my ex to know that I hav got a guy and I want him to move on. I wil never be able to forget all these things, so lets end things because ending things now itself is better for both of us. Its been two months we were in this relationship and we loved eachother a lot. Its been only two months so its better to end now because I know how I am, it will become worse day by day and ending things after 7 or 8 months wil be more difficult. He said these things and broke up. I really really want him back, please help me get him back, I am in an helpless situation. I was dating a man 12 years older than me for 8 months. He is 38, claims to have commitment issues and he is an extremist One day he wants to marry me, the other day he wants a break. Hes going through some financial problems and work related problems. So i was giving the relationship my all without asking for anything in return because i thought i was being there for him. He never compromised, he never took me into consideration, he basically started taking me for granted. He never asked for a break-up but constantly asks for breaks and space and never really meant them. Eventually i got sick of it, so after leaving me crying under his house, i Decided to cut him off cold turkey. He tried contacting me that same day, i never replied. Its been a month since we last spoke. He still likes my posts and re-shares. You too may decide after some time that you are better off without him. He likely misses you more than you know but is too prideful to admit it. I started a relationship slow with this guy. We fell in love said we were everything to one another. He just started a new job and his ex started giving him his kids all the time. He also takes classes a couple nights a week busy schedule. He informed me his kids come first period. I saw him last night because he dropped me money for the car. Which I should of never did already know. From three weeks ago to talking about having kids w me to now he has no time for me. So he texted me last night to check on me and I lied said I was out and he goes checking on you. He then tells me gn and love ya not love you like he normally does. This morning he texts me again good morning hope you have a great day taking the girls to a b day party. Then around noon he texts me hope you having a great day. He said last night let thing settle for him if we are both single still then we can try again. I feel lied to and used st this point. I am doing the no contact rule but unfortunately a little hard when hes going to drop off payments to me and we have to correspond bc of the car. My ex and I met 7 months ago one night out dancing. You must regret the day that you left me had an amazing connection instantly. He told me on our second date not to fall in love with him as he was moving back home across the country. Regardless to say I never reached out to him he contacted me every day and we spent every day together for 1. So we were committed and then I unfortunately lost the baby which You must regret the day that you left me flew to see him and he was amazing. I met his entire family and we fell in love. We were apart for 4 months and then went away on a trip which was great. When he moved back to my city he struggled with reality having to work and get up and guilt of leaving his dad who is terminally ill. He then started to get get distant stopped being intimate and short with me. When we finally talked he said he was not emotionally physically or mentally ready for a relationship. Where honestly he is depressed and not dealing with life situations of job security, financial security and family illness. He bawled his eyes out to me when ending it saying he was sorry that he loves me but he needs to remove himself from the stress of a relationship. He said I could still see his family and he still wants to be apart of my life, going for dinners, movies ect. I stopped talking to him and he texted me every day for three days. He sent so many confusing mixed messages when we were braking up, kissing me telling me he loves me asking me over for sleep overs. I feel he is intimate with my professional and financial success. I am a guy who was recently dumped after a 7 year relationship. I deal with heavy anxiety as it is and this just took it to another level, it lead to me having severe panic attacks as well as constant nausea and vomiting. Thank you for taking the time to create such a well thought out article. I know the way you feel right now, and am going to help you so you will get cured this will take you through the easy steps to turn the tables in your favor and have your health back to you within 14 days kindly fill the information of you, so i can tell you the next step so you can get back your health Name…. He has cheated on me more than once by talking to multiple girls and received oral from 2 girls while we were together, but I forgave him and was willing to work on it with him. I was with my ex for 8 months, he came on to me very quickly told me he loved me within 3 weeks we would talk a lot, at his request He called me all the time, texted me that he loved me like 10 times a day. Everything was good between us. He would always call me back when he said he would and that made me feel secure because he was consistent. We only got to see each other on the weekends and would have our alone time every other week, so it bothered me. I asked him a couple of times if everything was ok and he would say yes but I felt him distant. One morning after not getting his 3:45am good morning text, I texted him to wake up and he replied oh sorry I forgot I was putting gas. I knew right there that his feelings you must regret the day that you left me changed for me. He told me to do whatever I wanted like if I was the only one in the relationship. So I broke it off over a text. We were planning on moving in, in June and we were actively trying to conceive baby. I feel broken and its been hard to move on. I fell in love with him and here I am broken while he has moved on with his life posting away on his Instagram. He is private but I can tell he has been actively been posting pictures. Has anyone been through something like this. I saw the red flags but I chose to ignore them, he had only been single for 2 months he lied about it, the way he came on to me so quickly acting needy wanting to talk on the phone for hours, telling me he loved me within 3 weeks of meeting each other. My boyfriend and I just broke up today…. At fjrst everything was going well. He found a job in the field he likes and all of a sudden he became anger and bitter towards for no reason. We were together for 10 months we have 9 month old twins together and we would fuss, fight, argue, stop speaking to each other within the relationship I love him with my whole heart. We were just going to co parent. Now he acts as if I was a bad woman to him he made me feel like every problem we had I was the cause. He has a 13 yr old son with someone else and today he said she visited him at his place of employment. He only spoke to his son and only him…. He said that he rather be with her cause he deserves to be happy. But we havnt spoke since the break up. I went out with this friend and kissed him for many times when my relation with said was not going well. I thought like this i can forget X or let him feel im not ok but i reallyy dont have any love for that friend One day i decided to forget what happened with that friend and to love said with peace but a mutual friend told X everything the moment we lived happily together And it was a big catastroph. X was so angry he left me, he insulted and shouted. He came back to you must regret the day that you left me the things he didnt do when he was with me. I cried a lot and begged him not to leave. One day he called me to talk together. When he saw me, he hugged me he was calm and lovely he sad we can fix everything together. I was sooo happyy but the next day he woke up angry again and said he cant forgive me and he is not forgetting what i did i begged him again and again but it didnt work Now, Its been a month i cry all the time i need him but i dont know how to get him back and let him forgive me and forget Everything helps to remember him and our 3 years I feel like im dying inside ans he is surrounded by his friends who hate me now and encourage him to forget me Plz i need your help Thank you in advance My boyfriend broke up with me 7 days ago. So the day after I made a huge mistake and asked back for some money that I gave him to buy something for me but he had lost it. He told me to get lost and called me idiot. This happened 4 days after the break up. Other than the last month of 5. We did fight alot I must say but it all boiled down to us being really in love and getting things back to normal. But I guess he got tired of it and just gave up. So during the time of his visit to my city should I try to contact him and tell him to meet me up and discuss things out. Important to mention he always said things will be fine once he gets a job but I think we broke up just a day before he actually got one. First of all, what was the reason for him breaking up with you. Because he said he became heartless, so that indicates he was hurting in some way or another during the relationship and reached a breaking point therefore afterwards. The past is the past, and the future is all that matters now and my best advice I can give to you is to give it time and space. It sounds to me like this breakup was more a needing of space than an end to everything…. To the point where I wanted to go back to him. So my advice to you is to give it time and space. A week ago my ex logged into my social media accounts, does this have any meaning. Ok, so I get Phase 1: No Contact is important. But what happens if he contacts you via text or phone call. Do you respond or do you ignore it. He still watches my instagram stories when I post them. Possibly he does have problems he needs to deal with also. He came and saw me the following day to talk. Live for the now and not the future. We had a long cuddle I n bed it felt amazing especially after the heartache the day before. Friday came and we had a chat and he said he feels we may of got together to quick as he never intended being with me but things happened and I made him happy. He told me it was 4 weeks he had been unhappy for not 8 as initially said. We follow each other on social media still and fb says still in a relationship. We have a concert in July that he says we need to sort the tickets for and I said I still wanted to go with him and said okay. At work I still see him kept looking at me but I dunno why I cannot see any emotions from him that he still wants me back. Is he in a rebound relationship. He said he wanted his feelings backthat feelings when we were still newlike feelings that he craves for me everyday. He is very jealous, skeptical, insecure. I miss him dearly but I am not going to call him because he needs to realize what he wants in life. I had to do my investigation to see whom those chicks were. He calls me begging me to go back to him…… again I fell for it we went back he stated that he did that to try to get me jealous……. Start our own business together etc. I deleted for good both my facebook accounts for him…. I stayed with Instragram which I still have him on there. I post my daily pictures or positive uplifting quotes, about marriage, relationships regardless I still believe in love. I did apologize told her I had wrote that comment from his facebook. However she has no respect for me. You girls are better than that. Remember you learn from every relationship. Yes it will heal you faster to move on but in reality, You are not healed yourself. You need to heal before going into another relationship…. Who cares if hes already in another relationship listen you are You. We were introduced by a mutual friend. On our first date the time just flew by, we got on so well. We were together for 3 months and had an amazing time together, great dates, went away for the weekend together. There were no arguments, we seemed to be a perfect match, liked doing the same things and happy together. He talked about the future, we were planning to book a holiday, he even talked about the possibility of moving in together in a couple of years. I met his children, parents, friends and he told me they thought I was a lovely. I fell in love with him, he told me he loved me, I was his gorgeous girl, his soulmate, as near perfect as anyone could be. Then suddenly a week ago, he said he you must regret the day that you left me to end it. I was completely shocked and stunned. Our mutual friend has seen him and said he was sad but not heartbroken and got no more out of him than I did. What went wrong, it seemed to be going so well. We were on and off after the breakup until we finally agreed on not talking. I always hated it when he surrounded himself with those people and I still do. His parents raised him right, he just always goes into the wrong influences. I dont know whether I should answer his message or not. Hi, thank you for writing this post, it was very useful. Mainly due to me, but overall we were happy and compatible. We left the relationship on you must regret the day that you left me terms, and he said maybe we will get back together in the future, once we have both lived a while, we can catch up and see where each other are at. Any advice would Ben great thank you. My boyfriend and I had an on and off relationship for three years. But I love him and think we could make it work. Is there a chance we could get back together. Even before when we broke up he always called or textedthis is the first time he has acted so cold towards me. We had been having some problems for awhile and I was crushed by him leaving. I was and had been very resentful about finding out he was married a 4th time that he never told me about. When I found out the issue was never discussed. Now I do take a lot of blame for many of our problems in our relationship. I asked him not to leave but he did, After he left he then was crying and very upset. He begged for me to take him back, you must regret the day that you left me none of our problems were really talked about. We have continued to text daily, some days all day long. In November after I wrote him a long note about my feelings and what I went thru when we split we talked in person. We continue to text and talk on the phone sometimes. We are both still angry about the past, he more than I. I am willing to let go and and forgive him but it seems now he is in that anger stage. Like I said he texts me everyday. He has 2 jobs and his dad has been in and out of the hospital so out meet keeps getting pushed off. I have reached out to him, offered my help in any way. Last week he told me he needs patience, time and understanding. I also have not pushed nor suggested meeting. Do you think there is hope to get back together. My ex broke up with me back in September of 2017. He randomly texted me in the evening Merry Christmas and had small convo. He then disappears for three weeks. Even guys from dating websites liked that particular pict. How many people are in your account. Why would he care if I still use the app if he is the one who ended the relationship. Is he trying to get me back in a way or just bored. I was surprised when he texted me out of the blue. The problem is we play rugby for the same team and he offers to take me home everytime after training …. If you do want him back in your life then let him be the first to say he wants you back. And if there is enough signs he does and you do want him, then tell him. If not tell him its making you uncomfortable My ex and I had been seeing each for a year and half, we are both people who never thought we would end up together but eventually it all happened. He dumped me yesterday using the excuse that he is not 100% in. Before this for the past month he has been on and off with the way he feels, sayin he wants me then testing himself to try not and see me for a week but then rocks up at my house when his drunk and with no invite. I love the boy dearly and want him back more than anything the way he has ended it has confused me beyound no doubt with his constant change in thought. He says he loves me then dumps me the next day. Do you want to man up and be with me or do I need to stop waiting. Make sure your medias are filled with lots of fun stuff and pictures of you. Once we met we clicked and after a few months we were both Grtting attached. We wound up pregnant and he totally stepped up. Wanted to be together fully and it reflected in his actions. We lost the baby but still stayed together. He even suggested trying again. Two months later he was working a lot and we were drifting. We always got along wonderfully when we were together. We slowly broke up without it even being clear to me why. We were broken up a month and he would still send me random texts frequently. Last week he called me wanting to hang out but I had plans. He decided to go out in the same area I was and blew up my phone asking me where I was so he could meet up with me. He sat me down and cried to me about how much he loved me, missed me. He told me how bad he wanted the baby with me and how much it screwed him up. After an emotional catch upI went home with him. He cuddled, talked and made love most the day. He asked me to come back that night he had to go to work and that he wanted to make me dinner. He deleted his dating apps in front of me. All of this was completely his decision. We spent the night together again. Everthing was wonderful and natural. Obviously im blindsided and completely heartbroken. Plus we go to the same school and are in the same advisory but no classes, just some free periods. He finds it hard to deal with issues and prefers the easy way out. This new girl is stroking his ego and I suppose he thinks a relationship with her will be more emotionally fulfilling to him. However, should I make it private again for the sake of making myself less accessible. Do I also delete him from Facebook. What should I do with regards to being accessible but not too accessible. I was dating this guy I was working with for slightly over a month. It went extremely fast and was very intense- lots of butterflies and passion and warm fuzzies all around. He took my word for it and told me fine, he was gone. I called and texted him throughout the next day to try and talk things out, but he ignored every attempt to contact him. I was devastated, and also a bit pissed. He texted me after I had already gone to bed later that night. He came into work the next day and proceeded to completely ignore that I existed, and close to the end of my shift he went to his not mine supervisor and proceeded to accuse a co-worker and I of sabotaging his work. Anyway, he walked out of his shift that night. The next night he did acknowledge I existed, and I tried to respond minimally and civilly. He ended up walking out of that shift too, claiming that he was being made fun of every time he entered mine and my-co-workers primary work area. He texted me a day or after basically deriding my character and maintaining his accusations, no matter how much I tried to claim innocence. Another period of time passed- about a week or so, and then he called me asking for some of things back, and I agreed to return them and again attempted to try to talk things out, but he was still convinced I had more or less caused his losing his job. That ended with a long text by me that went unanswered until a little over a week later when he texted me asking if I wanted my things. He texted me on my way back home that he had found my things. I called the next night after I got off work and asked if I could pick them up- he sighed and said it was last time he was gonna see me. I told him that depended, but he hung up at that point. I got my things, and he told me to have a goodnight. He said he had just taken a job nearer to where I lived so he could see me more easily, and at that point I thought it prudent to mention my roommate had banned him from the house- she owns it and I pay rent, so really, it was up to her. No answer for a few days now- honestly, I just want to know if I should expect us to be able to work things out or not. We had what I feel was a highly passionate connection while we were together and I was beginning to fall in love with him. What do you think the chances of getting back together are. Ok so my relationship with my ex was amazing. But then he wanted this break with me but was still contacting me and seeing me 3 times a week atleast. Hello, My ex broke up with me by phone December 30. Things were good other than minor miscommunications which got annoying but we always talked it out after. December 29 we had sex and he took me out for dinner and things were good. Then the next day after making new years plans with him he said 2018 is approaching and will be busy with work and he felt we didnr communicate great so broke up with me over the phone. I was in shock and didnt know what to say so I asked if I could call him later to talk. He said okay but it wouldnt change his mind about his decision. I never contacted him because I was hurt then he sent me a long message apologizing, wishing me the best and if I ever needed someone to talk too he would be there for me. We have been dating officially since September 2017 but in an ongoing sexual relationship as if we were dating since june 2017. We spent this past christmas together with no problems and things were great. I know we can work on things but I dont know How to get him to understand. We work together we lost our job because we were in a relationship he did not care he Risked his job I risked my job to stay together even after losing the job we stayed together we still love each other the same I thought he will break up with me after losing the job but we knew the consequences when we first started dating we still did not care. Being a single mama has so much responsibility he helped me in many ways co-signing to my apartment co-signing to get me a credit card with his credit. Taking care of my child loving my child giving my child the love of a father everything he did was so perfect. We always talk about future having babies having a house we plan to meet my family we go on vacation thanks so much we seen so much as speech for future. I know he cares about her he did tell me he cares about her a lot and he wants to make sure that she is okay before he moves out. After 3 hours of arguing and crying he moved out with me. He said okay he will mert the next day. He told me he will go see her I said okay could go see her. Next day his wife message me telling me to stay away from him and her and that she will never come back to me and my child. And he has to give me money half of his income every month. That tells me clearly that she blackmailed him emotionally whichever way to money which made him make that decision. I really miss him a lot what hurts is that he broke up with me just before Christmas and we had so much planned to start a fresh new year together have a Christmas dinner together so much plans for future so much planned for New Year everything fell apart just in matter of 2 second. What hurt the most was that I feel like he made that decision based on a lot of miscommunication. I truly believe that we can make this relationship work with proper communication. Should I just let it go or tell him that I want to give this another try. You deserve a man that wants to you must regret the day that you left me with you. Do things that make you happy. Run a marathon, take a self defence course or do something you always wanted to do. You will find a perfectly good man that loves and wants to be with you when you least expect it. I was dating a guy for only a couple months and he knew I was moving for school. It felt like we were in a serious relationship because we got pretty close in those two months you must regret the day that you left me had. He told me a couple times when he graduated he was thinking of moving to Vancouver too. The last day we saw each other was when he came to Vancouver and we hangout around the city together. We both should of have talked about what was going to happen with us, but we never got around to that. I texted him we should keep in contact and that for Christmas when I come to visit I wanted to see him. He said that he also wanted to see me too, and we should keep in contact also. He never texted me once about me blocking him. I blocked him on Facebook again. At the same time I feel like I should just let it be. But what if as in my case my boyfriend got cold feet and broke up with me. I have not contacted him, but he has not once reached out to me. I still want to rekindle and reconcile. And the weird thing — his family contacts me to see how I am doing — which sets me back. My ex told me he do not want the relationship again that i should go, later he said i should give him space, i cried and begged him for two weeks after calling and texting him with no reply, i called his mom and message some of his friends and brother to help me beg him. Then i finally agree to let him be, but the truth is that i still miss him and i still call him and message him on facebook which he sometimes reply and sometime pick my call. After reading the step now, i want to know if i should stop calling him and texting him. I received a Facebook message from his ex girlfriend last Sunday asking if I was his girlfriend then told me she had been sleeping with him. I confronted him and he begged me for a second chance and I gave it to him. Go out more, take a dance class or start jogging it really helps. Do sonething new that you always wanted to do. I decided that he should just leave me alone and not text me but he still texted that he was going to be there for me if needed to talk to him about anything. Are you ok with someone else in the relationship. There are plenty of good men who are willing to only be in a relationship with you. Watch movies, work out, read a book. Do things that you enjoy to pass the time. You will find a man that deserves you. Hi, we have been living together for 10months and we both live in Australia, we had such good moments but also we had a lot of fight over stupid things. Then another case that his dad asking him to take over his company in Netherlands. He has been thinking to take it over because he saying that our relationship wasnt going that well. So eventually we have been not living together anymore for around 3weeks now. I asked him couple times to try to fix this last time was 2 days ago but he keep sayinn that he cant fully commit to me at the moment because he still cant make any decision,otherwise it will just make you even more hurt. Then i stop asking or send him any message. I dont know what should i respond. I want to make him misses me and of course i want him back. Should i respond his random message or just ignore it. Thank you, I really hope you can help me: I met the guy before I went overseas, so we only had a short period of time together. Does he miss me and think of me. Is there a chance of getting him back. To cut the long story short I recently ended things because of the lack of effort and commitment after 7 months which breaks my heart because I truly loved him. Ugh any advice am I doing the right thing. Hey: now that am sharing my feelings with u to get the better outcome for my depression. I want you to please read this and get me a solution fory situation. I and this guy were good friends for 2years. We were again close like before speak like copules. Fight n and i would not speak n still after i get back we would get into our routine. But i feel he likes me because when i say i want him he shows the love but again asks me to be friends with him. Can i get a solution as to what i must do to get him back again : I was dating this guy for nearly a year. We go to the same small college and he is in the grade above me as the same major. He would push me away, then show interest, have sex, show interest then push me away again. I put him through a lot in the beginning of our relationship so he uses that as an excuse for the poor way he began to treat me. I was so vulnerable for this guy. I told him I would to anything for him, and I would change the things about myself that he did not like. We broke up and I finally started to just focus on myself again. My happiness is no longer relying on him. We love each other, but right now we are just toxic for each other. He never knew when he was with me and it killed me… I know I want him but his indecisiveness has caused this relationship to crumble. It just all seems like a chase. Hi, I was dating a guy for only two months. We had the most amazing time together and a great connection. On date 6 we confided in each other about our traumatic pasts. We had incredibly amazing intimacy and fantastic dates. By date 8 I could tell that he was starting to fall for me. On date 9 he freaked out and told me that he had absolutely no concerns regarding our relationship and that he had no doubt about our connection and that if we continued to see each other we would have a wonderful relationship. The fear that he was having is that I have a 5 year old son. He wants children, but said he is not ready to have a child in his you must regret the day that you left me. I was not pushing anything and he was putting pressure onto himself. I told him that I was trying to focus on the present and that I was not ready for him to be a part of that either. I just wanted things to progress naturally. He ended things after you must regret the day that you left me last date without giving us a chance. Is there any hope for this situation. Hi, my ex boyfriend and i work together, he is younger than me and we were friend for 2 years, I have been supporting him during his bad marriage. Latter he got separated from his wife and contacted me 2 weeks after the separation and we became together very quickly and very intense, he initiate every thing and we were very happy he told me how much he loves me and that he wanted to have a future with me. I gave him all the attention and care he needed to help with his separation. Then after that he start to change he started to disrespect me and became secretive than he dumped me because he is not ready for a relationship but he wanted us to remain friends. Afterwards he contact me via text in almost weekly basis for the following 3 weeks after the breakup checking on me and try to open conversation, also appreciating me at the office to check that i am ok. I stoped all contact a week ago and started to ignore him in the office as well and tried not to run into him but in a cool way so I only smile and say hi if we are in the same place briefly. I am very cool, calm and smily in the office as allways which he can see which made him a bit uneasy and he tried to get my attention. I continued taking care of myself and having fun which he can see as well. Can you please advise if you can. Question is ur in a long distance relationship and ur ex has been acting shady. To get things to break up mutually between you both. And claims to stay as friends for the future … should you agree. He ignored me after I did alot lf begging etc. But They are short answers from him. No inclination that he wants to work on us again. Get on zoosk or some other dating website. The next bus is around the corner. There are a lot of good men still out there. He text me out of the blue and asked me how I was and then said we should go get food. He also said that he wants to just be friends. I still have feelings for him and he knows that. Hence the reason he told me he just wants to be friends. I feel like he is playing games with me and going to get food is only going to hurt me more…. It is going to be a year that we broke up. He did introduce her to his family as a friend. Our text messages were at first him telling me that he would never see or talk to me again. Our messages have become very intimate. He asked me to come over 3 weeks ago for the first time since we broke up he had said he would not invite me over again with the excuse that his back hurt and that I was the only person that could help him. I realize he was extremely turned on but we did not get intimate that night. I went home after and he asked me to please text him to let him know I was home safely, which was our routine when we were together before. I texted him the next morning to ask him how was his back feeling but he did not reply, in fact he did not text me again for 7 days. His brother passed away and I sent him my condolences and had a sympathy card for him and his family. I did it again, I went over his place and fixed his back, only this time we were very intimate, but he refused to have intercourse, only other things. Again he has not texted me back and it has been 4 days. I am not sure if he was using me or if he really did miss me. I have no idea if he still with the other person since I have not asked him. We were together for 2 years before breaking up, we were the best of friends and talked every day and night. He called me and texted me every day when he went away on a cruise with his friends. My best friends tells me he is using me, his son tells me he is confused. Please help me understand this man. I love him and I really believed he cared for me. About a month ago, my 2 year relationship ended with the love of my life. We were both madly in love with each other and very passionate, and the passion went both ways. I did a poor job of leaving no doubt for him to know how much I loved him, which lead to various problems. I never ever cheated on him or went behind his back, but there were stupid lies throughout that ultimately became too much for him to deal with. He lost trust in me the past 6 months, even though I knew that in those past months were whenever I was the most trusting. Anyway, we fought all the time and our lives were miserable, still loving each other immensely. I begged for a few days because I was so devastated, but I turned that around. But he would joke with me, tease me, etc. His life before me consisted of having really good friends, women included but only as friends and I never once doubted thatand he would typically hang out at bars every other weekend, but he totally stopped that after the first few months of us being together. So I know that his wife was probably there which means that other women were not. I have felt better about myself and life in general, but the worriedness and anxiousness does not go away. I know that no matter what our future holds, together or just friends, this will have been the best thing for us because we would have never been happy living and treating each other the way we were. This was during a slip up last weekend that I regret. However I feel in relation to that is going to be a natural thing, and right now I do not want to move on from him because I want to be with him so badly. I have been with my man for over three years. I have a child with him and another on the way. He broke up with me saying he was just tired of it and just knows how to get in my head to where I feel so hurt and upset and hate myself for doubting him when I even catch him in lies. Since he broke up with me I have no right to say who he sees but it will make me feel like I was nothing to him. He says he loves me but not in love with me. He gives me kisses sometimes but then ttys to not give me the wrong idea. And what if he fell in love with someone else and had kids with them. I love him and he genuinely loved me. Please tell me what to do to make him come back to me. You must regret the day that you left me and my fiance separated after two years because of the many problems between us. But the last problem was big and did not talk to me and I did not speak to him three months ago, and his father convinces him to return but he refuses to. I knew that from the people around. He felt as if he was putting me on the back burner, which I completely disagree with. It was the healthiest, most amazing and fun relationship anyone could be in. He was going through a tough time and struggling with mental health issues and decided that even though I was willing to stick by him and love him no matter what, that he needed to help himself before he could let anyone else help him. I was so upset but understood that when he said he needed some time to get himself right, thats what he needs. So I am giving him some space, we spoke last night to catch up but it was him initiating it and asking how I was. I left it a day before I replied and he seemed like he genuinely cared. I hope things work out, he is seriously the loveliest, most caring, generous and funny person I know and we got along so well. I really hope that focusing on myself for a while and allowing him to do the same will be exactly what he needs. I just hope we find our way back to each other soon as I miss him very much. I hope your situations turned out well guys xx I have been with this guy from 6months. We were in a more than friends type of a relationship coz we both needed time to commit each other and call it as a Love because love takes times. But we bith were very loyal to each other and everyone knew we about us that we are more that friends and dating sort of. We even physically intimated and were very happy with that also. He was very caring guy who us give me attention all the time. But from past 1 month things were not ok because he was not able to give me time and then I started fight on small small things. In this mean while his father was admitted in hospital and my guy got very disturbed while that time. And in the last i got so frustrated that I spoke shit to him very badly in anger. I apologised to him after that but it was to late and he decided to end it. So he called me and spoke to me nicely and ended it. Because he was the perfect guy i want. My ex and I have been through a lot. Everything has been amazing since day one. We recently suffered a you must regret the day that you left me but he seems fine as we very supportive. I thought this was the man I was going to marry one day. However he recently met up with his ex fiancé. They have had a toxic on again off again relationship and he was the one who broke of their engagement for good. He met with here after 8 months of no contact to retrieve some important information she had of his. The meeting turned into her saying how sorry she is and she wants him to give her another chance and you know what he did…. They are no good for each other and everyone knows it. Do you think your methods will work in this situation and make him realize he made the wrong decision. I want him back not because I feel I need him but because I truly do love him Me and my long term boyfriend did everything together and we basically lived together. He has a few mental health problems and a pocessive mother. We went to America on holiday a week ago and next week he starts his last year of uni. We did so much together we where like two peas in a pod as load of people told us. I would ask him about it and one time we got in a huge fight about it because I wanted proof that they were over. Anyways the fight turned bigger and he ended things. I used to use this formula all the time with my ex… but he was a narccisist and used devalue discard almost monthly for 18 years to keep me in love with him. I used to think wow this stuff works, until I realized he only came back because I was what they call narccisistic supply. Make sure you are not in a situation like this before using these methods that absolutely work, but sometimes we should let them go and get past the pain of missing them. We shared every thing we eat everyday how close friend we were. I falled in love with him after 3 months of friendship. I felt so much pain inside because of insecurity because he did not know i am in love. After many thought oneday i told him that I am in love with u so badly. This is my last and final message to u. I you must regret the day that you left me a lot o got crazy but i had nothing to do. First 3 months he didnt loved me that i realized. He fall deeply in love that he started give me Gold Locket…Gold Ring…. Gold earpin…he started spent lot of money…. His mom asked him about he has any gf or not. His mom bought jewelry for me for wedding. That is how much serious he was. The day i left my country that morning he came to surprise me with a gift hand watch. After 2 yr rltnshp i got admission in canada for ms. One month ago we had heated argument also like always. He was fire and said this is our last conversation he brokeup with me. He added so many girls in his facebook after he brokeup. I called him 22 days but he didnt pick any of my call. From last 9 days idont call or msg him. He blocked me but he didnt block My best friend. My friend sometimes asked him that he misses you must regret the day that you left me or not. He says yes He misses but he wont back. Then my friend said then how u sure that u will forget after some days. Is there any chance to come back. If he talk to another girl he will forget me. Why he makes us confused that he loves me,trying to move on,but wont back,but recently misses me a lot…why all this things. We are both from the same city and then we both moved to the east coast for college and stayed together a year and a half, but started falling into communication failures and distance. We have generally been very good at fixing our problems, but this summer we both were in the same city for two months, it was wonderful, then I left for a month to a different country and it started to happen again where we lost touch and communication became worse to the point where I would express my deep sadness and emotions about not being happy and all the things I felt were wrong in our relationship. He wanted to fix it and admitted he felt the same and wanted to rekindle the spark, but then the last week before I came he became distant again and then I got back and we talked, cried and broke up. I regret losing him and I have followed all the steps and methods and in your videos. The ones about writing bullet points on what went wrong, his views, etc and I still feel lost, but I have come to terms with a lot of things I did wrong. He owed me money from a previous trip we went on and I was a bit rude about it you must regret the day that you left me I feel it somewhat ruined the relationship after the break up, but then we started to slowly talk and I asked his opinion on something, he was kind, but stopped anwering. I am now back in the city I study in and he is still home, but will be back soon, 3 hours away. It has been almost a month since we broke up. He broke up with me saying that he had enough of the small fight we had every month. Since our breakuphe show no emotions. He didnt try to reach out to me too. However he does constantly post on his facebook page. And it does seem to me he has already move on. Is there even chance for us to be back together again. Hi, this is great and motivating article. Although we decided I will move out which is hard. I am having holiday now and after moving out. How long will it take to get him back. My boyfriend and I were together for almost three years. We were pretty much a power couple, he was my first boyfriend, and he was 7 years older than me. Everyone who knew him before I met him, constantly told me he is so much better and happier with me and had never seen him treating anyone like a queen like he was treating me. He was good looking and smart and he knew it. We met each other at work, he was trying to move out of his apartment because he did not like his roommates, and he wanted to go back to school. We were on a break after us talking to each other for about 3 months because he wanted to focus on himself and just pick up shifts, make money, and get out of that apartment. We were still speaking to each other, one thing lead to another, with my help, we moved him out and he got his new apartment. Few months later, when I thought we are still just friends he told me he loves me, like 3 times until I stopped pretending like I am not hearing him. We started becoming more public about our relationship. He was so kind and loving and he did every single thing he could to make me feel special. He was so respectful and considerate. He would even come help my mother with some of the manlier things around the house. That really upset him, he failed the first exam and ended up dropping the course which cost him a lot of money too. So just being more in debt than before, and having a nagging girlfriend who kept trying to push herself on him and became more and more protective and paid more attention to him so she would get more attention, got annoying. He kept saying that all we do is argue now, and I kept saying it is always over the same thing, I just want to see you more. Anyways, 2 weeks ago he asked for some time and space, I got mad, then resulted in a break then a break up. All in matter of like 30 minutes because I was livid and confused. I thought everything was great. He said he feels like he is not good enough for me, I made life so easy for him he was letting go of himself and becoming lazy. Which really pissed me off because last time we took a break while he moved out he said that same thing but then 5 months later telling me he loved me he said he didnt mean any of that. I am a very very hardworking woman, type A, I even made a to do list and plan of attack for both of us every day, so I know if he was even being lazy it was because he was just being lazy and had nothing to do with me. The last week, he got drunk two nights in a row even with me, he only drank when he was upsethe texted me often but I was sleep, my summer class had started, and he even called me. He texts me every so often, maybe with a picture of a car he thinks we both like, and used to ask me about my class. I know we got back together last time, and I have a feeling he will come back this time too. This year, it wouldve been our 4th birthday and christmas together, he even said no one celebrated his birthday before me, and no one wanted to decorate the house for halloween and christmas like he did. He did tell me he cares about me, but he did say that he wasnt happy with himself anymore. State fair is in a month and it is our tradition to go to it. I was wondering if it is okay for me to ask him to go as friends. I am going on another trip in a week to just get out of here and not let sadness come to my life. I already signed up for some fun activities and new hobbies as well to keep myself busy and learn bunch of new things I have always wanted to learn. I do love him and I care about him. My boyfriend broke up with me early this month. We used to spend every night together when he was home from school, so I thought maybe we just spent too much time together doing the same boring thing everyday so he got tired of the relationship and not me. Hi, I have broken up with my boyfriend since two months now,but then since he is not even texting or trying to approach. Later this week mistakenly I made a call the next day he reverted me but then again I didnt answered him. My ex and I were in a long distance relationship for the past 15 months. He works out of town all week so we only saw each other every weekend but talked and texted daily. The relationship was good, even talked we both wanted long term and eventually to live together until 3 months ago when he took a new job for his company. The demands of the job and long hours started changing him, which i told him that. He was becoming irritable, pulling away so I started pressing for him to just move in with me and my teen son so it would be easier on all of us. He asked for his freedom even though he says he still loves me. We continue to text some for about a week after this but I still was doing all the wrong thing and my last text was I love you, to which he responded Enjoy your day. I have since stopped all contact and know there is probably no hope of him wanting me back even though I know he really loves me. Any thoughts or advice would be greatly appreciated. He broke up 6 days ago n i m contacting him bt he blocked me frm everywhere. Bt he talk to my friends n sayng them that this decision is better for us. I want him back n i know he miss me alot bcoz v cnt stay widout each other. I tried to call or msg him bt he dint replied but then i told him reply once if u ever loved me he replied b safe b happy. I am confused will he come back to me. He told dat he is not happy but he is stress free leaving me. Well, I have a question… and that is, how likely is it for him to come back after randomly breaking up with me. We had an amazing relationship, wow amazing. I met him after a tragic tragic thing happened with his father… and I met him a month after… we connected right off the bat. Throughout the months we were getting to know each other he asked me to be his girlfriend. Respectful, playful, honest, everything you could possibly ask for. Now our priorities are more serious with life, we are both 20 and very Mature. Full time jobs but We both take care of the things we need to but we always made sure we made time for each other. That he needs to focus on himself and to take care of his family he has no children but of course his mother and sibling. This article is mostly targeted to woman. So I ask a question on man side. I have lot of difficulties to start a new relation, because this give me anxiety. My ex that I was with for 7months decided to stop the relation. Since we broke 4 weeks ago, we regularly see at beginning because we kept some feeling. She from time to time text me that she missed me. But since couple of day she is much colder in her message and when we cross each other. If someone cheats on you, speaks poorly of you, disrespects you, or makes you feel crazy, inadequate, or unloved, they do not deserve to have your love or attention. There are so many other people and opportunities for you to find joy and happiness in this world. My boyfriends mother passed away 5 months ago he took it really hard. I you must regret the day that you left me home from work one day and he said it was over. No fight because we never fight. He said he wanted to go to school and better himself but he had to do it alone. I decided to do no contact after 4 days he texted wanting to see me for lunch. Everything went well a couple days later I asked to go to dinner. After we went to dinner I tried to put the moves on him. After being shot down he left. He texted me the next day saying he had fun. Feeling rejected I decided to go back to no contact. However he saw a friend of mine the other night and talked about how he misses me and my son. He told her we still talk and see each other. We talked a lot and went to video calls. She treated me awesome and we planned about our mariage and all. Then after i pushed her out of my nonsense to her husband saying its better for her and kids to be with their dad. She refused and refused and i pushed and pushed. At the end she talked him and are now together. Now i begged and cried in front of her to come back. I tried no contact but after 2 week i couldnt resist. I texted her all that how i miss her and love her and sent her my poetry i wrote for her. After 50 texts and many days she replied. She said i cant text her at night. And said it cant be like early anymore and cannot love someone over internet. And i like you as the person you are. And she wants to be with his husband now. She said she wants the kids to be with their dad and dont want to waste all years invested and cannot start afresh a new relation. I asked her at least be my friend. But now i stopped talking her now about 2 weeks. So my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me a month ago due to arguing. He is in the army and currently away. I made the mistake of begging for him to take me back, before asking if we could still talk and saying I would leave things. Ex bf of 2 years says he does not love me anymore but wants to be civil due to our kids…we live together also…we are sleeps g in separate rooms…aftwr begging and asking for another chance, he has made up his mind that he does not want o because there is no more emotional connection…. I needed to say that to get some closure…. We have been together for10 yrs have 2 boys moved in and out with eachother n this time break up was bad i even said he was dead top me …. And responds to anything he says or does he knows he had me like that …what do i do. But then he begged for another chance so we started talking again and I was trying to make it work until I found out about something else he had done during that time. And all the anger and hurt came rushing back and I told him we were done. And he got really emotional and he told me not to leave him and that he will change and he begged me. Would he stop trying to win me back. I was dating a married man off and on for 5 years. The last 2 years were very deep. He gave me a ring and made moves to divorce his wife. We had a big fight and it got ugly. I of course chased him and did all the wrong things trying to salvage it. I gave up 4 months after the fight and worked on me and understanding relationships. After getting myself in a better place and taking care of me. I feel I really want to show him I grew and would like to reconnect. So I planned a little run in after these 5 more months since no contact. He is talking to my friends about me but everything is negative or he is trying to check my motives. I paged him cause I was upset he was talking to my friends and not me. I praised him about changing me and my relationships and told him all good things but I also told him that I felt hurt and hate it when he spoke to my friends and not me. I asked him to respect me and not talk to them about us. That I blew up his pager that week. I said all good stuff other then asking to not talk to my friends. I figure I leave him alone…if I see him just smile and love him so he can see the changes. After 2days he called me and said sorry because of me your depressed, it all happened because of me. After 2days he called me and sad sorry because of me your depressed, it all happened because of me. My ex and i broke up 6 months ago after he moved across the country for his dream job. When he left, we were meant to do long distance for 6 months and then figure out what we were going to do. We lived together and had been together for 1 year and a half. Two weeks after he left, we were both miserable and he started being overwhelmed with how hard work was. I felt like we were not in the same place in our lives and we decided to break up over the phone. We kept texting each other and updating one another about our lives and we missed each other terribly. I have been trying to go no contact for quite some time now but I fail every now and then. I miss him terribly and he told me he needed time and space to focus on himself and we would reassess in a few months. I have decided to start working out, move apartments, plan a big trip… but somehow the only person I really want to share my stories with is him. I am flying through Vancouver where he now lives in August and I thought I would text him for a quick coffee at the airport. I hope he will want to see me, I really do. I need some sort of closure and if not, a way to reconnect. Your post is from the beginning of this summer-how are you doing now. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months. It was going great until about March or April. We would start bickering over little things and it started you must regret the day that you left me happen not every time we went out but the majority of the time. Little did I know that a break meant breaking up. After three days I contacted to get some clarity on what was going on. I told him that I knew I had a lot to work on and I was willing to do it. I told him that I am fine with spending sometime apart but at some point we are going to need to come together and work on our issues. Is my situation even salvageable. I am willing to do whatever it takes to not just get him back but truly work things out. We talked about a life together and having kids and that is something I want with him. I know everyone says it but I know he is the person I am meant to spend my life with. I have tried other websites but I am just not financially in a place where I can just buy a step by step book. Then one day he decided to break things off. Days after we were planning future dates. He says I can text him about work stuff since we work together at different companies. Is he really busy or just not that into Me. Should I just move on or wait it out a bit. Hi, I just need some advice, couple of month ago me and my boyfriend had a big argument and he ended up texting someone else for sex and that, nothing happened but intentions was there and from then on things just got bad. We discussed abt it n e promised to love me and b a beta man for me. A year after d relationship I noticed e stopped calling n neva replied my messages. Early January this year I asked him if we were still in a relationship n e broke up with me saying e needed space that I was too possessive. I really miss him n I always feel as if my hrt is going to explode. Please You must regret the day that you left me need advice on how to get him back or on how to forget him and move on. Hi tq for this post I am honey …last 5 month ago my bf did broke up with me. And without knows anyone he taking cares me. What I mean by this is, for a guy whom you never officially dated but had a really amazing connection with. We got into a conversation and it quickly escalated into daily, almost constant communication. Anyways, we connected pretty deeply really quickly. He would say things like he had never been able to have a conversation with another girl like me before, and how he could talk to me all day. I have been in a long term deteriorating relationship for years now, and he knew this and still expressed that if I made the decision to leave he wanted to date me and we even talked about marriage. It was all very fast, we probably moved too fast in the things we talked about but I really think we had a real connection. Anyways I ended up making the moves to split with my current relationship, and when I told this guy he seemed happy about it. But because my situation is complicated and my partner was making things very difficult for me, and simultaneously, this other guy was having problems with work and was busier and busier, I started to get needy and anxious and would tell him too much about my problems you must regret the day that you left me my partner. This guy was always very sweet and listened to me, but over the course of a few weeks I could feel him pulling back and instead of giving him space I got more needy. We had had plans to meet, but I told him I wanted him to see me when I was strong and not vulnerable. He expressed happiness that I felt this way and he was confident in my ability to be strong, but then I got more anxious again and kept pressing about meeting he lives in another country. He said yes he wanted to meet still,but I sensed that he was saying this to make me feel better and he was feeling a little hesitant about it at the time because of how anxious I had been acting. Over the course of the following two weeks, we communicated less but he would still check in with me every few days and had mentioned it would be hard for him to meet me because there was only one day which I could do so, but he said he was doing his best. He also informed me at the time that he had had a major financial loss at work and I knew he was very stressed. I told him I was glad his tickets were refundable and that I was sure we could meet another time. No response that day, Saturday, or Sunday. By the time Sunday rolled around I had no clue what was going on and I sent about four messages throughout the day asking if he was still coming and that I was stressed not knowing. Then I sent another message a few hours later, admitting that I knew I had bombarded him with too many messages and mixed messages and that I knew I was all over the place, and how I wished we could have met after I was independent and after he had dated and they everything would have been magical. I also said I wished the best for him and wanted him to be happy and that I would no longer anticipate hearing from him. Well that was about a month and a half ago. I know that I was too needy, all over the place, and gave him too many mixed messages. I know we had a special connection, and there is a part of me that is still holding on and hoping there is a chance down the road for us to at least be friends, but I am afraid I completely ruined it. Or do I give it more time and then try. Either way, I do need to work on myself and I need to be able to be independent and amazing — this was part of the shakiness, I am not independent and I know I need to be if I want a real relationship. Do I go like 6 months, and then reach out and say hi how are you. How do I know whether to initiate something. Is it even possible he still thinks about me. So over the long weekend my boyfriend comes down to visit me. On Monday morning, i could hear zippers zipping up downstairs at 9am. I woke up and saw him packing his clothes. I knew something was up with the way he just looked me. He hugged me goodbye and left. When he got back home i got a phone call. He called and said he was not good and we needed to talk. There was no signs showing a breakup since we never really had problems. We had a great weekend, and then he goes home and calls me to break up with me. Anyone have any suggestions or reasons why he all of a sudden did this to me. So me and my were long distance. Not too far away from each other tho, about 4 hours. I had just accepted a job in the city he lives in and was all set for moving down and four days later he broke up with me. I was worried you must regret the day that you left me his behaviour that I looked at his phone to see if there was something going on but I found nothing. He kept it hidden for months instead of shouting at me, which I would have accepted. So me and my ex- bf were together for over a year and half. We moved in after 5 months dating with his sister and her bf close to the end of the lease we started arguing, then we moved in with his friend and his gf. All he started to do was nap a lot and play his computer with his friend all the time. He cut down on being sexual active with me and we would get into petty arguments over stupid stuff. We only had a 6 month lease with them. Well ever since we moved in are fights became more frequent and he started to get even less sexual active with me…. It hurt and I would get mad at him all the time and we would dight all the time. Then it got worse when he completely stopped being sexual active. Well he barely talked to me and I had to start begging for him to even hangout with me. Are lease was almost up and we were planning on moving out together then one night I asked are we getting a place together still and he kept saying idk idk then I asked him do you still want to be with me and he said idk I was hurt by this so I asked him again a yes or no answer and he pauses and quietly said no. I asked him if he could please leave and he did. Then the next day he grabbed some clothes and his computer and told me to give him time. I told him over a month ago that I loved him and he couldnt say it back he didnt say anything just that he knew I loved him. I about panicked I hopped out of my car into his and sat on his lap crying my eyes out telling him I loved him and he means so much to me he said he cares about me a lot and I was like I love you and he said I love you to for the first time ever. I said I was sorry it didnt go the way things were he said he needs time for him self. He needs to work on things alone I asked why cant we work together and he said no he has to do this by himself. I was so heart broken I sat on his lap crying telling him how much I care about him and telling him I dont want you to do this and he said he didnt want to do this but he had to. He told me we can still be friends and that we will hangout I also asked him if once in a while he would come stay the night just lay there not do anything and he said yes. I told him maybe its best if were friends and work back to the way we were and he said yes. He told me he has hope for is later but not right now. He said he had to go and I grabbed him and hugged him and told him I love him so much and he was like I love you so much to. He hugged me tightly back and I asked him if he could wait till I left first and he said yes. That night I texted him told him I loved him and that I will always be here for him he replied same goes for you I hope you know that. I havent talked to him since then and this happened saturday im so hurt and I cant stop crying. He told me give him a week before we start talking again. He told me hes there for me but how can I talk to him if its about us he knows how I feel and he still left in hurt so much its killing me I havent been able to eat or sleep properly…. His close friend told me we were around each other to much and you must regret the day that you left me we just need time apart. Everyone I talk to tells me give him space he misses me and thinks we will get back together. Its so hard from one point seeing him every day talking every day to nothing at all. Please any advise or what you think will help me. So im a guy, and my gf of 2 years broke up with me. Im so in love with her that i would marry her if i could. The whole problem is that she is young and curious and i was her first everything…. We ended on really good terms and im happy she is just so honest with me. She has always been like that, she didnt want to hurt me in the relationship so she thought this was the best course. She loves me to death and she always tells me that she wishes she lived her life before she met me so we can be happy now. I believe her bc she has always told me this. Now its summer, school ended and she is going to mexico with her family for a whole month. I would love nothing more than to just be with her. Idk why but i have a this strong feeling we will get back together in the future. Ohhh and btw she said that i should live my life and not just wait around. She is so perfect and caring its hard to just let that go. Should i go the summer without talking with her. Everyone tells me to just leave her, but my heart and my mind knows what it wants. I wouldnt want another relationship or anything serious with anyone else unless it was with her. If you need any more info just ask. The relationship was pretty turbulent but our feelings were passionate and intense. The reason for the ultimate disconnection was something he did. I have been living my life — the past 6 months had me pretty preoccupied abroad even though he has been in my heart and mind. I still care about him deeply. I have found myself doing what I can to know his current state via social media — his recent posts reflect sadness. What I would like to know is — is it possible for him to reach out to me after not having done so all these months, or is it unlikely. I just find myself hoping that I will hear from him. He was blocked most of this time and I recently unblocked him. Answers and suggestions will be appreciated. At the beginning, he was interested in me. We had fun together and our conversations was deep. During 8 weeks no contact with him, I miss him so much. I still have strong feeling for him. I know this is very difficult, but just continue what you are doing and do not initiate contact with him first. However, if it as already been eight weeks with him not nudging you, then he does not deserve you anyway. Or else give it a last shot and try contacting him now, and if you all get back together then switch your position. Act like you do not care how often you see him. Use reverse psychology on him. Had a break up of after about 6 years. Nothing horrible just was because of stress and no communication. He broke up with me and the whole time it seemed I was the one trying to fix things. But we eventually ended it all 100%. Fix things and be happy worry about me. If I had a picture of a guys friend on social media with me is that bad. It seemed he was communicating less and less so I called him and he said he would call me back. That work had just been extremely stressful. He asked if we could get together to talk about it and suggested a day. I wrote him back in agreement I meet and talk. He ghosted me and after a month I unfriended and blocked him on Facebook. Me and my boyfriend Jay have been together for almost two years. In the beginning it was great, no arguing, nothing of that sort. Now we are at our two year mark and the same thing has happened.

We lost the baby but still stayed together. When i came over he was fine and we enjoyed each other,until today morning when i saw on whatsapp he posted this girl which he is involved with her. On date 6 we confided in each other about our traumatic pasts. By trying something new, you're minimizing future regrets. Can i get a solution as to what i must do to get him back again : I was dating this guy for nearly a year. I believe his girl dumped him and now he regrets not telling me the true story. If something we like is taken away from us, we want it back. I am trying to not talk to him and just leave him be. The who has been working too much and might be preoccupied around the children might happen to see an ad, or a parent playing in a carefree manner at the playground with their similar-aged child. At first we were talking constantly. I believe her bc she has always told me this.